The nerves aren’t the problem. This is


Hi Reader

Happy Friday, and a quick insight for you!

One of my coaching clients recently asked me something.

He had a meeting coming up with his CEO.
And he told me, “That thought stays in my mind for days before the meeting.”

I said, “That’s okay. It shows that you care.”

Then I added:
“As long as it doesn’t stop you from doing what you want to do… it’s okay.”

He found that simple idea surprisingly helpful.
Maybe you will, too.

Because that’s how it is with public speaking too.

Do you feel nervous? Or are there any butterflies?
Good. It means the moment matters to you.
It means you care about your message, your audience, and the impact you want to make.

The goal isn’t to get rid of nerves.
It’s to not let those nerves stop you.

Let them come. Then do the thing anyway.

You might be surprised at how much power is on the other side of that discomfort.

As always, thanks for being awesome!

Rama

Here's a fun song for the Friday that I came across (ok credit goes to my wife for sharing this with me)! If you are in romantic relationship, the lyrics is even more fun. Enjoy!

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Teeth
5 Seconds of Summer
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