How are you? And yes, I wish you and your family a happy and refreshing New Year 2025! It’s time to welcome 2025 with open arms and maybe a little nervous laughter—it's ok. Nervousness during public speaking shows you care about the speech. So is life. When you reflect on your past year, how do you feel? If it was great, fantastic, keep it going. If not, think of 2024 as the “prequel” to the blockbuster year that 2025 is going to be. Even if some chapters were messy (trust me, I know it well), you can make it crisp and clean... eventually. You know, for me, New Year means a fresh slate. It's an opportunity. I was talking to a friend and was asking about resolutions, and he outright said, "I don't make any as I don't keep it." I don't agree with that. You should make some. It's ok to fail. Otherwise, you are not even taking a chance. While I usually talk about speaking and communication, today, I've something for your growth. Real growth happens when you invest in becoming the best version of yourself. It could be as simple as: 1) Pick up some interesting books (start with those where you are inclined to a topic or struggling with the topic) and make it a habit to finish them. Please don't tell me you don't have time. You can always repurpose some of your TV or Netflix time. Just saying! 2) Celebrate Small Wins. Growth isn’t always about big leaps—it’s about consistent steps. Learn something new, conquer a fear, or even just wake up five minutes earlier. Each step counts. And yes, making it to the gym once counts, too! But do it again. 3) Surround yourself with people who lift your spirits. I can't emphasize this enough. Whether it’s a mentor, a friend, or anyone who is genuinely caring for you, the right influences can inspire growth and help you reach your full potential. 4) Be Kind to Yourself. Trust me, you'll miss goals, and there will be times when things won't work. Growth is messy and not so perfect. But so is life—and it’s still beautiful. Treat yourself with the same patience and kindness you’d show a close friend. Maybe eat a brownie and some ice cream! One important thing. The best version of yourself should match the "type" of person who is capable of achieving your goals. Yes, that's the harsh reality, and when you get it, things become a lot easier. Grow into the person you’ve always dreamed of becoming—one step at a time. Every day of 2025 is a chance to make that happen. And yes, please don't forget to have fun along the way! Appreciate your attention, and as always, thanks for being awesome! -Rama |
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How is your 2025 coming along? Hope you are off to a great start! Yesterday, I wrapped up a coaching call with one of my clients, and I wanted to share a few insights that might resonate with you—especially if you’ve ever been left scratching your head over unclear feedback. 1. Feedback that's not clear is not helpful. My client asked for feedback from someone senior, only to receive unclear comments. Unsurprisingly, this felt confusing and disappointing. Here’s the reality: not all feedback...
Hi Reader How are you doing? Hope you are looking forward to the holiday season. I certainly plan to chill out and reflect on the year that went by. If you are not planning to travel, take some time off the routine. It just helps! Today, I want to share a few key strategies where you can use storytelling and motivation to drive results. I had a coaching call today, and I wanted to share some insights that could benefit you in your journey as well. It's regarding Storytelling. If you think...
Hi Reader Yesterday, I stumbled upon one of my old speeches where I talked about my perspective on getting married. I was 10 years younger then. My son was playing and I asked him if he wanted to watch a speech. He said "Yes," and we both watched it. Watching that humorous speech with my son (and my wife tagged along) was lovely. My son started laughing along. My wife asked, "Did you even understand?" He goes, "Dida is saying funny things and people are laughing." While the moment was awesome...